this is about love life !!!
all of us at some point of time have longed for aGF !!! but many of us were unsucessful in our attempts..the reasons are many... u dint have the courage to tell the girl..the girl rejected u....the girl was already having a BF etc..
but in this am not going to discuss abt the reasons,but its about the ways to lead a love life..ppl who r having GF/BFs will be able to understand this discussion better..but others also read,coz it may help u in the future..
i will explain the scenario first..u saw a girl, u had a big crush on her..u told her about that..
she said some NOs, after some can't we remain as gud friends questions..finally she agrees...
then starts the story..
after she told yes to u....there s some change !!!
{i dont know whether it s same with gals,whether they also take this U turn ,readers can pour in their experiences so tat i can get an idea}...
till a gal says yes..we have a lot of time to call her, to take her out, to help her in the class work etc...
once she says yes the story takes a U turn...
1st way
according to him he needs to play cricket everyday,he cant speak to her wen he s with his friends,he needs to spend time with his hostelmates during nite etc...
but y he dint do all these things wen he was trying to get an yes from the girl ..
if girl asks the same question even by mistake then comes the master blaster answer " cant u love me for wat i am "....
then starts the problems..the girl is very sad(readers can suggest a better word),coz she s not getting wat she expected,but she s not sure how to react,coz she is more attached to the guy than the other ...
i had a discussion about this with some of my friends,they also shared the same view point of the guy..why cant she accept him as he is?
lets think that she accepts him as he is,but then starts the real battle !!
both of them are not ready to change ,they want to stick to their habits...guy wanna eat chineese everyday whereas gal is not ready to sacrifice her tandoori roti ..gal expects long nite calls ,but guy cant miss his WWE...
ths goes on like this for some period and finally they reach a point where they are unable to adjust and they say goodbye........{very few ppl manage to carry this through out their life}..
2nd way
but wat am advising is another way..the way of change...
my point is y dont both change to suit each others habits..y cant any1 of them give up his WWE or chineese..
it might be difficult..but not impossible.
but the results are wonderful.. the gal will support u like anything,will love u like anything..
wat every1 should understand is that love also means sacrifice !!
if the 2nd way is not acceptable to u,then dont go for this...unless u r ready to do sacrifices dont go for a gal..by doing that u will be ruining both ppls life....
both of u wont be able to enjoy the wonderful years of youth !!
